the life of LOVE

LOVE is life :)

she loves him more than he'll ever know. he loves her more than he'll ever show..

No one in this world can give the right explanation of what love is really all about. No one can give the exact meaning of it. You wanna know why? because each of us has different experiences of it. We should not envy others who seems so happily in love or pity those who are not that lucky to found someone to truly cherish because we have our own love story with the right person at the right time. Love is really hard to find, but once you found it you won't regret it. So if you're single, then enjoy your search. If you're already taken, then enjoy being taken(taken for granted)just kidding :)

  



I'm gonna share a little bit of what I've experience about love and life so that you could know me better. if you're interested then keep reading, if not then its up to you :) so here it goes,I started having boyfriends since I was still in highschool. I have been to a lot of not-so-serious-relationships before and it taught me not to take things for granted, to give value to time, to be passionate and sweet,and so many things an immature lover should learn. I was into rush, i thought everyone I met was deserving,worth it,etc. it all didn't worked out because I'm the type of lover who easily gets bored and when I say "I dont want to stay anymore" i mean it. I usually do the "leaving" thing. BUT now I've finally found(actually he was the one who found me first)someone really worth keeping for. Before I thought love was just easy,simple,sweet and all stuffs like that. I thought in order to keep love you jut have to be sweet and understanding but this person totally changes my perspective about this thing called love and these are the things I've realize because of him:

• the heart brings you into a relationship, the mind makes it work (because of him I became realistic, that love is not just about happiness but also heartaches so learn to deal with it. don't let your heart always make the decision,also try to consider your mind sometimes)

 

• one wrong move can destroy everything (one big lie can totally ruin trust)

• you are the only person responsible for your choice, so be quite sure about what you are doing (always think twice before making a decision,don't think of what you'll gain,think about what you'll lose)

 

• learn to accept everything about the one you love (i learned to accept his flaws,his stupidity, his insensitivity sometimes,he being a dominant and the list goes on...)

 

• staying inlove is much better that falling in love (those butterflies in your tummy, the trembling,sweet messages,late night phone calls and those cute feelings you feel when your together and just trying to know each other well is just part of falling inlove, when those things are gone but still you want to stay with him, its called staying inlove, you just get used of being inlove with him and it feels good)

 

• use "i love you" for telling your loved one how you really feel. don't make it sound too casual and habitual (we dont often use that word because we believe that love is true when it comes from the heart,not from the mouth)

and the most important lesson I learned is that the most important thing you should have in order to prove your love is PATIENT & UNDERSTANDING--love is not about how long you can wait for someone but how well you understand why you are waiting.

wanna know why for me patient and understanding really matters? because we have decided not to be in a usual ordinary lovelife :) from friends to lovers to ex lovers to bestfriends to lovers&bestfriends at the same time. I don't really know what we are haha but were enjoying life to its fullest right now, no pressures, no big quarrels, no rules,etc. or should i say it this way, WE ARE MATURING TOGETHER. for us, everything happens for a reason and the right time will prove that reason. there's a right time for everything so why pressure yourselves? be happy.be young.be wild. be free.be inlove. After all what matters most is the happiness we've shared together. if were not really meant to be then no regrets because wonderful lessons are learned, if were meant to be then all the pain,struggles,heartaches,and waiting with patience and understanding is all worth it :D



 to mylover&bestfriend, you're the coolest person I've known! see yah around ;)

 

ChristianGreyisLOVE

Christian Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey 

Christian is accustomed to his BDSM Dom/Sub lifestyle. However, when he meets Anastasia Steele during an interview, a shy and awkward young woman, he finds himself utterely attracted and bewitched by her. He soon decides that he wants her to become his next submissive and is confused as to why getting the hint that she is inexperienced sexually and unlike his other Subs.

Soon though, their relationship begins and Christian finds himself constantly breaking his own rules of the contract for Anastasia, including some of the contractual agreements (i.e. controlling her eating habits, her exercising habits, her sleeping habits, and her clothing). Anastasia Steele, unaccustomed to the lifestyle of a Submissive, defies him frequently which both arouses and frustrates Christian in a way he has never before experienced with any other woman. Soon he realizes he is developing feelings for Ana that he has never felt before which spirals his life in ways he is not prepared for due to his past and nature. 

 

Fifty Shades Darker
After the disastrous end of his relationship with Ana, Christian finds himself broken by Ana leaving him. But soon, after unable to deny their feelings for each other, the two rekindle their sensual affair. Christian, desperate to keep Ana in his life, wrestles with his inner demons.
However, when someone from Christian's past pops back up in his life and threatens Ana, Christian must make choices fast. 

Fifty Shades Freed
 When unworldly student Anastasia Steele first encountered the driven and dazzling young entrepreneur Christian Grey it sparked a sensual affair that changed both of their lives irrevocably. Shocked, intrigued, and, ultimately, repelled by Christian’s singular erotic tastes, Ana demands a deeper commitment. Determined to keep her, Christian agrees.
Now, Ana and Christian have it all—love, passion, intimacy, wealth, and a world of possibilities for their future. But Ana knows that loving her Fifty Shades will not be easy, and that being together will pose challenges that neither of them would anticipate. Ana must somehow learn to share Christian’s opulent lifestyle without sacrificing her own identity. And Christian must overcome his compulsion to control as he wrestles with the demons of a tormented past. Just when it seems that their strength together will eclipse any obstacle; misfortune, malice, and fate conspire to make Ana’s deepest fears turn to reality. 

I've done reading 50 shades of grey and 50 shades darker :) I am currently reading 50 shades freed. I've come to realize now that I have also fallen in love with Christian Grey. He is so complicated but still amazing in his own ways. I love to have a boyfriend like him. LOL he is such a yummy handsome man and Anastasia Steele is a hell of a lucky,lucky girl. They said that they will soon make a movie out of these books and I hope Ian Somerhalder will play Christians' role. The description fits him well, very well :) 

status: currently dreaming of my own little version of Christian Grey(sigh)

source:wikia.com

 

Milk Tea

Tea with the addition of a small amount of milk is called "milk tea".

Are they really healthy? since almost all of the people now are already engaging themselves to coffee and milk tea including I. I am also curious if these milk tea's are healthy or is it an unhealthy combination, let's find out what are it's benefits.

MILK and tea are not necessarily a healthy combination. Both beverages are good sources of nutrients and antioxidants, but studies show that mixing them result in a number of negative effects. True enough, tea has anti-diabetic properties and improves cardiovascular health. But when milk is added, its anti-diabetic properties and antioxidant potential are reduced. The researchers also discovered that milk proteins called caseins reduce the efficiency of the tea compound called catechin, which protects the heart from diseases. A 2002 study of Richard Anderson and Marilyn Polansky of Beltsville Human Nutrition Research Center in United States, meanwhile, found out that adding 50 grams of milk per cup of tea decreases insulin activity by 90 percent. Insulin activity is an action of a substance where the blood glucose (sugar) level in humans is lowered. When tea’s insulin activity is reduced, the body’s protection against diabetes also decreases. As for the tea’s antioxidant potentials, a review paper by Carmen Cabrera of the University of Granada in Spain said drinking milk with tea decreases its antioxidant potential, “depending upon milk fat content, milk volume added, and the method used to assess this parameter.” Antioxidants are easily destroyed upon exposure to different substances. The proportion of milk, tea, sugar, and other food add-ons (like tapioca, coffee jelly, nata de coco, and pearl) should also be considered, because these factors may also decrease the number of antioxidants in tea. 

“[Drinking] milk tea is good for people who are up-building (gaining weight), because milk tea is calorically dense. Adding milk to tea also enhances the flavor and improves tolerance,” she said. Hedrix Ar-ar C. Caballe and Giuliani Renz G. Paas

Cobo Possibiliteas is one of the second milk tea shops I love.

Chatime located in I.T. park was the third milk tea i tasted and it would be my third favorite.

I will share a milk tea recipe for you guys, hope you'll love it.

Ingredients:
- 3/4 cup brewed tea (such as black,green or jasmine)
- 1 cup ice cubes
- 2 table spoons sugar syrup (to taste)
- 1/2 cup milk (or soy, almond, or rice milk)
- 1/4 cup tapioca pearls or you can use any pearls you want.

Procedure:
Combine the tea, ice, syrup, and milk in a blender, blend until frothy.
Place pearls in a tall glass.
Pour milk tea mixture over pearls, serve w/ a fat straw.

It may be good for the health or not I think in every thing we do, drink and eat we should take it slow and know it consequences and considerations in our body and life. Either way I will love milk tea forever. :)